My girl cousins and I on my mom's side have a cousins chat and to keep it alive and thriving we ask one thought provoking (more or less) question per week. Cousin Sharon started this ritual and is the biggest contributor to it's success. One prompt for the week was say whatever mundane thing you were doing in that moment and add the phrase "like a boss". At the time I was drafting an email reply "like a boss". So often we are not confident in our skills and tihs exercise